John Gray Profile

The best-selling relationship author of all time, John Gray inadvertently coined a pop culture catch phrase with the title of his best-selling book Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. The iconic therapist is perhaps the most famous marriage counselor in the world, and his smart techniques for managing stress and communicating across gender differences have made a splash with Fortune 500 audiences.

For the last 40 years, John Gray has helped millions of people improve their relationships, communication and health. His groundbreaking work Men Are From Mars, Women Are from Venus was the best-selling book of the 1990’s and won Gray multiple devotees. The book spawned a cultural phenomenon that has included infomercials, a TV sitcom, audio and video self-help tapes, weekend seminars, and even a Broadway Show. Gray followed up his work with 17 other books linking health and lifestyle, the latest of which is Staying Focused in a Hyper World: Book 1 Natural Solutions for ADHD, Memory, and Brain Performance.

Gray continues to write, speak, and counsel clients on proper nutrition, useful exercise, relationships and love. He gives over 100 presentations per year worldwide.

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    John helps men and women understand, respect and appreciate their differences in both personal and professional relationships. His approach combines specific communication techniques with healthy, nutritional choices that create the brain and body chemistry for lasting health, happiness and romance. His many books, videos, workshops and seminars provide practical insights to effectively manage stress and improve relationships at all stages of life and love.

    John’s books have sold over 50 million copies in 50 different languages. His groundbreaking book, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, was the best-selling book of the 1990s. It launched his Mars Venus book series that forever changed the way men and women view their relationships.

    John’s latest book, Venus On Fire, Mars On Ice, combines his 30 years as a relationship therapist with extensive new health research to explain the connection between your hormones and relationships. John shows you how the often frustrating differences between men and women can be appreciated and used to create a healthy relationship full of love, passion and lasting energy.

    John continues to teach communities and companies simple ways to improve their relationships and communication. He has appeared on Oprah, Dr. Oz, The Today Show, CBS Morning Show, Good Morning America, The Early Show, The View, and many others. He has been profiled in Time, Forbes, USA Today, TV Guide and People. He was also the subject of a rare three-hour special hosted by Barbara Walters.

    John Gray lives in Northern California with his wife of 26 years, Bonnie. They have three grown daughters and three grandchildren. He is an avid follower of his own health and relationship advice.

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John Gray is a natural born teacher who loves to challenge and motivate audiences with real-life stories, humorous anecdotes, and proven strategies for improving their lives. The acclaimed therapist translates the latest brain research on gender differences into insights and tips you can use to more effectively craft your communication in the workplace and at home. His entertaining examples and case studies will click things into place as audiences recognize the relevance they have for navigating situations in their own lives.

Men Are From Mars Women Are From Venus – Improve communication and get what you want in your relationships

  • Create positive relationships through understanding the differences between men and women
  • Practical tools for avoiding and resolving conflict
  • New skills for crating lasting romance
  • Understand how men and women can manage stress more effectively

Gender Smart Leadership

  • Gender Smart communications skills for business succeeds
  • Understanding gender appropriate approaches to motivate men and women
  • Gender Smart Insights for managing stress at work and home
  • Understanding and bridging the gender gap at work
  • Understanding the unique strengths of men and women in the workplace
  • Understanding brain and hormone differences between men and women

Gender Smart Sales

  • Understanding how men and women are motivated differently
  • Closing the sale with a man or a woman
  • Insights for building trust with women and confidence in men
  • Maintain successful relationships with clients
  • New insights for getting referrals and for expanding your customer base
  • Understanding brain and hormone differences between men and women
  • Discover why and how men and women are motivated to buy

Gender Smart Team Building

  • Increasing morale through understanding and nurturing the differences
  • Managing stress effectively in the work place
  • Supporting work/life balance for men and women in different ways
  • Improving communication between the sexes
  • Minimizing conflict and resolve differences
  • Appreciating inclusiveness through appreciating our differences
  • Understanding brain and hormone differences between men and women

Gender Intelligent Leadership Skills for Women Only

  • Create a culture in your business that supports women in rising to the top
  • Develop your leadership skills by understanding how men and women work differently
  • Be more successful through understanding women’s unique needs for managing stress effectively
  • Increase success through building confidence in dealing with the opposite sex
  • Learn how to motivate men and avoid conflict

Two Day Weekend Soul Mate Seminar for Singles and Couples

  • Create lasting love
  • Overcoming the Obstacles to Finding Your Soul Mate and Awakening Your Soul Connection
  • Learn New Ways to Communicate So Your Partner Can Understand You: How to Avoid and Minimize All Conflict
  • A Man with a Plan a Women with a Smile – How to be Irresistible to the Opposite Sex
  • Finding forgiveness - Restoring innocence and falling in love again
  • How to sustain attraction for a lifetime

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Books by John Gray:
    Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex

    Once upon a time Martians and Venusians met, fell in love, and had happy relationships together because they respected and accepted their differences. Then they came to Earth and amnesia set in: they forgot they were from different planets.

    Based on years of successful counseling of couples and individuals, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus has helped millions of couples transform their relationships. Now viewed as a modern classic, this phenomenal book has helped men and women realize how different they really are and how to communicate their needs in such a way that conflict doesn′t arise and intimacy is given every chance to grow.

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